Was it a stroke of luck?“You’re lucky.” It’s a phrase I’ve heard often since my stroke—lucky to have my sight, lucky to have avoided more severe deficits, and lucky to be here.
I don’t feel lucky about what happened. But I do feel grounded in gratitude for the path of healing I’m on, for the people walking beside me, and for the ways this experience continues to shape how I see myself and the world. This blog is where I make sense of that journey in real time—through story, reflection, and the quiet work of rebuilding. |
Deserts are a sacred space. Each of the aunts had a specialty - like Tia Lucila's carrot cake. There were multiple flan adaptations and you could tell the subtle difference between Tia Cira's or my mom's based on the shape, and garnish - the signature grated coconut and a maraschino cherry. Tia Vina was the cake artist who used piping to make doll cakes complete with a big belle skirt. My Abuela made Panetela Boracha - a rum soaked sponge cake. I'm sure I'm forgetting something, and I'm hopeful one of my many awesome cousins will remind me. My mom's bread pudding is also a classic. She's an old-school cook and makes her food with love and instinct. She knows how much milk based on the feeling of the mixture and if it feels too wet she adds more bread. We did our best to capture the recipe, give or take a smidge on quantities. Have fun with it. IngredientsFor the batter 2 loaves white bread (any sliced bread will work) - no butts 3 cups whole milk (we used almond milk) 5 large eggs 1 cup white sugar 1 1/3 cup canola oil 1 tablespoon vanilla extract 1 can sweetened condensed milk Mix-Ins 1 3/4 cup crushed pineapple, juice reserved 1 1/4 cup shredded coconut 1 1/4 cup chopped walnuts 1 cup raisins For the caramel 3/4 cup sugar 1/4 cup water DirectionsThere are two ways to get started. Most recipes ask that you preheat the oven to 350. My mom prefers not to preheat because the water gets hot and sloshy, either way will work - she uses a cold oven set at 375. For either method you will need a large roasting pan filled 2/3 of the way with water. Your round cake pan should be able to fit nicely inside of this pan. Place this water filled pan in the oven while you make the recipe. It's called a "bana de Maria", or water bath.
To unmold, run a knife around the edges, and flip over into a large plate - large enough to hold the caramel! The caramel will now be on the top and drip all around. Cut into large slices and enjoy! |
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